Hello again,
Yes I agree that sand looks nicer than some gravel, the downside being the fact that it's slightly more trouble to clean.
I have used play sand from Woodies and it's good in that it's cheap...however - despite claims that it's
pre-washed - it takes an awful amount of clean water washing it in a bucket before the unpleasant 'scum' is totally washed away.
The 'pukka' Aquarium Sand is a goodly bit more expensive, but well worth the extra, in my opinion.
You can get 'gas' build-ups in the sand after a while but this can be dispersed to a large extent by merely running you fingers through it whereupon the gases will rise to the surface.
Likewise with cleaning it, being much denser than even the finest gravel all your 'mulm' will settle on top. If you create a small 'low' area - say in one corner - and give the sand the same 'finger-running' treatment...it (the 'mulm'

should then settle at the lowest point where you'll be able to syphon it out (carefully!). And yes, you were right - you would not be able to use your gravel syphon, it would be far too efficient at sucking up the sand...
John