Retirement and forum shutdown (17 Jan 2022)
Hi,
John Howell who has managed the forum for years is getting on and wishes to retire from the role of managing it.
Over the years, he has managed the forum through good days and bad days and he has always been fair.
He has managed to bring his passion for fish keeping to the forum and keep it going for so long.
I wish to thank John for his hard work in keeping the forum going.
With John wishing to "retire" from the role of managing the forum and the forum receiving very little traffic, I think we must agree that forum has come to a natural conclusion and it's time to put it to rest.
I am proposing that the forum be made read-only from March 2022 onwards and that no new users or content be created. The website is still registered for several more years, so the content will still be accessible but no new topics or replies will be allowed.
If there is interest from the ITFS or other fish keeping clubs, we may redirect traffic to them or to a Facebook group but will not actively manage it.
I'd like to thank everyone over the years who helped with forum, posted a reply, started a new topic, ask a question and helped a newbie in fish keeping. And thank you to the sponsors who helped us along the away. Hopefully it made the hobby stronger.
I'd especially like to thank John Howell and Valerie Rousseau for all of their contributions, without them the forum would have never been has successful.
Thank you
Darragh Sherwin
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- darren77 (darren butler)
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- Fishowner (Gavin fishowner)
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Both should only be put in a tank for breeding purposes,they need to be managed closely as the male fighter can attack the female fish and vice versa. Also the fighters are likely to get picked on also by the tetras, fin nippers will always have a go off fighters tails.
There are exceptions as always,however generally speaking its not a good idea I would say personally. Size of the tank etc may help, you should get an idea relatively quickly of how the 2 fish get along. However I wouldnt put them in the same tank.
The guppies wont bother them by the way.
Gavin
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- Blake123 (Blake O Leary)
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Although a few years back when I had fighters my guppies killed him, after a few days he had no fins left:(
Blake
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- SpookyMuffin (Debbie Behan)
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It's true that in very rare cases that males and females can live together but it can turn sour very easilly. Younger bettas are more likely to get along than older ones as aggression seems to increase with age and size, so they might get along now but that might not be the case in the future.
I really wouldn't take the risk myself as there are so many things that can go wrong. The male might become overly aggressive with the females and kill them, if he's not aggressive enough then they could gang up on him and kill him or the females might fight to the death for breeding rights to the male.
I know that some poeple have done it but I would say that 90% of the time that mixing males and females (unless they are in a huge tank that will allow them to have seperate territories) is going to end up in a blood bath at some point.
I breed them and I have to say that it's insane how much damage they can do to each other in the few days I have to put them together for a spawn. I would never put any of my fish into such a dangerous situation for a prolonged period of time.
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- SpookyMuffin (Debbie Behan)
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Not just about fish either. They usually keep rabbits and guinea pigs in together, which can lead to the painful death of the guinea pig. They sell people pairs of young Syrian hamsters that will kill each other when they reach sexual maturity. And when they sell you a degu they usually recommend food that will give the animal diabetes and kill it in a year.
So, no, petshops are not the most reliable source of information. I am not surprised that they told you that you could keep a male betta with females since that's how they usually (incorrectly) keep theirs.
There's a site called UltimateBettas that can give you all of the info you need about looking after your bettas in a way that doesn't put their lives at risk.
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- SpookyMuffin (Debbie Behan)
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Now my male betta was a real sweetheart, he would interact with me through the glass and take food from my hand. He didn't have an aggressive bone in his body, which was why I thought that he would be a good choice to try in with females (even though I knew that experts in the betta hobby frown upon this)
They were first put in together in September and lived together peacefully until March of the next year when I came home and found my lovely HM male looking like someone had decided to give him a buzz-cut. He had almost no fins left and several open bites on his sides, I seperated him from the females immediately but he died later that evening.
I will never take that risk again.
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