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Retirement and forum shutdown (17 Jan 2022)

Hi,

John Howell who has managed the forum for years is getting on and wishes to retire from the role of managing it.
Over the years, he has managed the forum through good days and bad days and he has always been fair.
He has managed to bring his passion for fish keeping to the forum and keep it going for so long.

I wish to thank John for his hard work in keeping the forum going.

With John wishing to "retire" from the role of managing the forum and the forum receiving very little traffic, I think we must agree that forum has come to a natural conclusion and it's time to put it to rest.

I am proposing that the forum be made read-only from March 2022 onwards and that no new users or content be created. The website is still registered for several more years, so the content will still be accessible but no new topics or replies will be allowed.

If there is interest from the ITFS or other fish keeping clubs, we may redirect traffic to them or to a Facebook group but will not actively manage it.

I'd like to thank everyone over the years who helped with forum, posted a reply, started a new topic, ask a question and helped a newbie in fish keeping. And thank you to the sponsors who helped us along the away. Hopefully it made the hobby stronger.

I'd especially like to thank John Howell and Valerie Rousseau for all of their contributions, without them the forum would have never been has successful.

Thank you
Darragh Sherwin

Fish Bullies

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03 Feb 2013 11:47 #1 by Wackoo (Niall)
Fish Bullies was created by Wackoo (Niall)
I Have two red dwarf gourami and one is being bullied by the other. He's chased constantly by the other whenever he see's him.

I don't particularly like it so I was going to bring one back to my lfs.

My question is do i bring back the one being bullied to solve the problem?
or do i remove the bully?

Niall

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03 Feb 2013 13:27 #2 by LemonJelly (Johnny Cowley)
Others might disagree with me on this, but I'd keep the one that looks the best; unless there's other gouramis and there's a risk of the bully just moving on down through the hierarchy.

It's funny though. Sometimes no matter what you do with a fish you can't stop him/her being a bully. After 10 years of keeping fish I've come to a simple but profound conclusion... sometimes fish, like people, are just arseholes :evil:

"The only thing that burns in Hell is the part of you that won't let go of your life; your memories, your attachments. They burn them all away. But they're not punishing you.They're freeing your soul."

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03 Feb 2013 14:12 #3 by Wackoo (Niall)
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He is a bit of a jackass alright! :)

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03 Feb 2013 17:24 #4 by LemonJelly (Johnny Cowley)
i had a psuedotropheus greshekei that was incredibly aggressive to anything else in the tank... except for 2 little multifasciatus shell dwellers that had no idea how outgunned they were

"The only thing that burns in Hell is the part of you that won't let go of your life; your memories, your attachments. They burn them all away. But they're not punishing you.They're freeing your soul."

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03 Feb 2013 17:37 #5 by Gonefishy (Brian oneill)
Have to say I hate bullies in the tank...the big question is whether or not to get rid of the bully (the dominant stronger fish) or the fish being bullied. My wife hates the former so stronger they may be, they end up finding a new home.......

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03 Feb 2013 18:53 #6 by LemonJelly (Johnny Cowley)
that's a good point

"The only thing that burns in Hell is the part of you that won't let go of your life; your memories, your attachments. They burn them all away. But they're not punishing you.They're freeing your soul."

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03 Feb 2013 21:28 #7 by Wackoo (Niall)
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So... If removed the one being bullied because he is weaker could that lead to the stronger one bullying other fish in the tank if he was the only gourami? Or is it simply a male v male thing?

Cheers
Niall

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04 Feb 2013 18:00 #8 by Gonefishy (Brian oneill)
I think it's a form of natural selection in the fish world.....the strongest and the fittest makes his or her way to the top of the pecking order.....you can always add more fish to reduce the attention being paid by the bully on the other one....they will always find a natural dominance hierarchy though but if one is simply a prck, then I'd remove him or her...

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